Different containers.
The same invitation.
The spaces I create take many forms — retreats, workshops, dance events, bodywork. What they share is a single intention: to give you somewhere you can actually arrive. To stop performing. To feel what's real.
Not everything runs at all times. What you find here is a picture of the work I bring — the kinds of spaces I create and the people they're for. To see what's currently available, visit the Events page.
You don't need to know what you're looking for. You just need to be willing to find out.
MULTI-DAY - PERIODIC
Retreats
Retreats are where the deeper work happens. Away from ordinary life, with time and space to actually go somewhere; into the body, into relationship, into parts of yourself that don't usually get a look in.
My retreats bring together movement, ritual, somatic practice, conscious sexuality, erotic embodiment, and conscious kink — held within a trauma-informed container that makes it possible to take genuine risks. They are for gay, bi, queer, and trans men, and for all those on the queer masculine spectrum who feel drawn to this work. They are not therapeutic programmes. They are spaces of discovery.
The Rite of Surrender
UPCOMING
A week-long immersive retreat exploring power, surrender, and emotional truth — through conscious kink, ritual, movement, and deep relational work. Co-facilitated with Shadi Terra. Held at Terra Rosa in the Costa Brava. For gay, bi, queer, and trans men ready to go somewhere they haven't been before.
ONE-DAY - PERIODIC
Workshops & one-day events
Workshops are contained, focused, and alive. They don't try to do everything — they create a clear space for one thing to be explored with real depth.
I work across a range of themes: conscious sexuality and kink, power dynamics, intimacy and touch, erotic embodiment, relational awareness, and the edges where these things meet. Some workshops are intimate and slow; others are more expansive. Some I design and lead alone; others I co-facilitate with people whose work I trust and whose presence changes the room.
Each one is different. What stays consistent is the container: enough safety to take a genuine risk, enough space for something real to emerge, and no pressure to perform or arrive already knowing who you are.
These are not spaces where you learn to do intimacy. They are spaces where you practise being intimate with yourself, and with others.
EVENTS - PERIODIC
Ecstatic dance & music
Dance has been part of my life since I was young — from London's late-nineties club scene, through trance, into ecstatic dance. It has always been one of the places I feel most free. Most myself. Most alive in my body without needing a reason.
The dance events I create and DJ are rooted in that. They are sober spaces where movement is the practice and the body is the guide. No phones on the floor. No pressure to look a certain way or move a certain way. Just the music, the room, and whatever arrives when you let yourself go.
Some of these events are pure dance — open to everyone who feels drawn to this way of moving. Others are created specifically for queer men: spaces that hold not just dance but sensual connection, play, and embodied presence with other men. A place where the dance floor and the body's other hungers are allowed to exist in the same room, held with the same care and intention.
This is a direction I'm actively developing — bringing together the worlds of ecstatic dance and conscious queer play in ways that feel honest, alive, and genuinely liberating rather than purely hedonistic.
Dance is not a metaphor. It is one of the most direct routes I know back into the body and back into yourself.
ONE-ON-ONE - AMSTERDAM AND BEYOND
Bodywork & massage
Touch is one of the oldest forms of healing and one of the most neglected. My one-to-one bodywork sessions are a space to experience what your body is capable of feeling — slowly, safely, and without agenda.
I offer sensual and erotic massage for men in Amsterdam and beyond, drawing on techniques from tantra and erotic methodology. These sessions are their own world — dedicated, intentional, and held with the same care and consent that runs through all of my work. They are not part of a workshop or retreat. They are simply what they are: an invitation into your own body, guided by my hands.
This work has its own dedicated space online, where you can read more about what a session involves, see pricing, and get in touch to book.
One-to-one sessions in Amsterdam and beyond. Rooted in presence, pleasure, and embodied awareness. Available by appointment.
Sensual & tantric massage for men
Ready to find something that calls to you?
Not everything runs at all times — these are the kinds of spaces I create, not a fixed catalogue. Visit the Events page to see what's currently available, or join the newsletter to hear about new offerings as they come together.